Legacy

I recently was a part of a women’s group that studied Elizabeth George’s “A Woman after God’s Own Heart”. I was asked to share some thoughts on a chapter that focused on being one that leaves a legacy. As I spent time thinking about what a legacy of being a woman after God’s heart looks like I thought of the legacy of Truth that has been imparted to me, and the uphill battle God has of creating a legacy of holiness in my life. Here are a woman’s thoughts to other women ...

TRUTH / REVELATION would be my mom’s life pursuit and greatest passion. God’s truth and the revelation of His character are most important to her; it always has been and always will be. She’s always been a student and a researcher, teaching us with her words and through her lifestyle that truth is to be pursued at all costs. It is deserving of all our time and energies and the value of the wisdom that grows from it has no price. Truth brings light, it brings understanding, it lays an accurate foundation of reality whereupon to build your life and it is a basic attribute of God – God is truth.

But I’ve learned, I think more importantly than the worth of truth itself, that being a faithful steward of truth is an even greater responsibility than simply knowing truth. The one who is entrusted with the treasure of truth is entrusted with so much more than simple knowledge or information.

We are caretakers of the lives around us. “Who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29) No matter who we are or where we live we are a part of a community. Your community may be your neighborhood, your coworkers, your church, your friends or your family and every member is an image-bearer of the holy Creator. Whether we wish to be a member of a community or not our proximity to the lives around us and our intrinsic value before God makes us accountable for how we treat each other.

As the application of truth happens on a daily basis within the context of our communities we quickly see that it’s harder to be a loving, tactful, holder of truth than just one who knows things and dispenses gathered knowledge at will. Truth can be so much more than a simple medium to be used and spent where it is helpful or convenient. It should be invested wisely in your own life first, and in the lives of those around you.

Truth holds much power and it should be handled carefully. It has the power to heal or to hurt. It has the potential to bring freedom or to shame. It can be used to encourage or to demean. So truth must always be handled with ample amounts of grace, mercy, wisdom and discernment. Truth in human hands may seem at times a dangerous thing but only Love has the power to keep Truth in check. Love is Truth’s keeper. Love is what takes simple information and turns it into words of encouragement. Love takes constructive criticism and uses it to empower people to live rightly. Love is the sensitivity to know when not to use knowledge, even when intelligence thinks it should be.

As women, we’re talkers. But God has also gifted us with the precious virtues of grace, mercy, patience, forgiveness, wisdom, empathy and of course, love. Women are like the keepers of the lighthouse … the loving, tender caretakers of truth passing on an incredible legacy, a role no one else can fill quite like us.

A daily quiet time in Scripture and prayer is the only place to gain both the understanding of truth and the character that can be entrusted with it. I am so grateful that both my mom and dad have exemplified for their children the importance of a daily quiet time. It was normal to get up in the morning and see my dad in his big easy chair or at the dining table spending time in the Word before he went out for work. And whenever we would go into my parent’s room to say goodnight, mom was always there in bed with her notebooks and her much-loved Bible that’s falling apart at the seams.

While my mom’s passion for truth has been passed on to me, I’ve learned many things about the pursuit and handling of truth. I’ve learned to be careful and I’ve learned the power of words. I’ve learned that sometimes saying nothing is more powerful than proclaiming truths from God’s Word. I’ve learned that a well placed word is worth much. I’ve learned that God is a rewarder of those who seek Him. My mom quite often didn’t do everything right. She would say things before she realized what they would sound like and I make the same mistake all the time. But I knew the good intentions of her heart were there, that she loved God more than anything else and that she only wanted God’s best for us. She was a faithful steward with what she’d been given and that’s what God is looking for.

Part 2 of Legacy … coming soon